Convenience is –

– putting the responsibility of your actions on the other person, and then shrugging off their sufferings by saying he/she deserved it..

If you look around, especially in case of abusive relationships, you would discover a pattern – the abuser tries to pose as the victim, someone who is vulnerable, and is led to these ‘reactions’ by some prolonged provocations by the other person. They also try to escape the responsibility of being an equal partner in the relationship.And when the relationship starts falling apart, then instead of collecting the remaining pieces and trying to re-build things, they start collecting accusations to be  hurled at the other person.

And then there is no choice left but destruction of something that was hailed as beautiful once.

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